| Over the
years, it is very consoling for her adopted
parents to have Reyna’s friends still keeping
in touch especially in times of extreme sadness and
grief. Most of her friends keep a record of how Reyna
had touched their lives.
Reyna’s
friends like Jackie
Archer (now married), Katie
Andrews (now working on her master’s degree
in geology), Allanah
Boullivant (now an anthropologist), Matthew Barnes
(now an audio engineer), Ruth Wightman (now a full scholar
doing her master’s degree), Liberty
Scott (now married in the USA), Marjorein Baas (now
a qualified nanny working in the States), the Cabana
family in the USA, the Arcega family (Aileen and Rebecca),
the Baas family, Hester Van der Werff (now married),
peers, and relations have kept in touch.
And more
recently, after so many years, Reyna’s parents
were pleasantly surprised when Ben
Gilbert, her classmate and a very special friend
came for a visit. They only know the young lad through
Reyna’s description. He is a good, well-focused
young man now. Ben taught Reyna (by phone and then by
e-mail) the technicalities of the computer and the rigmarole
of e-mailing and wonders of the Internet . They e-mailed
each other a lot, and were both avid watchers of the
X-File series. Ben kept a copy of most of their e-mails
which he shared with her parents to console them. Reyna
was starting to dabble
with computer painting and digitally-enhanced graphics
a few weeks before she died.
Katie Andrews
and her lovely parents have been in constant touch,
too. Katie. has a collection of things given by Reyna.
as well as about Reyna that go with it There are some
Christmas bells, a drawing that Reyna did for her ages
ago of a book worm. There are some party poppers that
she included in her collections for New Year 2000, 3
strings of beautiful shells from the Philippines, and
along with the ribbon from the bouquet she got on graduation
in 2001 plus a few other things that belong with the
photos as well.
Allanah Boullivant
wrote a very touching and consoling letter to Reyna’s
parents and a beautiful poem for Reyna. In College,
Reyna used to say she’d take up BSc at Victoria
Uni with a double major: Horticulture and Anthropology.
Allanah must have influenced Reyna’s future plans
because Reyna hoped to go to the same Uni with her.
Allanah completed her BSc from Victoria U in 2000, and
is now a qualified anthropologist..
Jackie Archer,
one of her best friends, her pal and soul mate never
tire of helping her adopted Mum put up this web page.
With her knowledge in photography and computer photo
editing facility, Jackie produced a digitally enhanced
family portrait of the Gerard family which Reyna wanted
so much to be a part of. Jackie was able to fulfilled
that dream of Reyna’s. Jackie also made a special
booklet putting in all her and some of their classmates’thoughts
and their memories about Reyna. Jackie has one part
of a Ying-Yang ring which she shared, and Reyna kept
the other half.
Kate
Barry, Reyna’s dear friend and classmate
at the college was so saddened by her loss that she
wrote a poem as a tribute to her. Kate Barry is now
in England.
Sonja
Johnstone, in her moment of grief, wrote a short
message in recognising Reyna’s personality and
talent in art.
Keriana
Tracey, who Reyna considered a very good artist,
wrote a poem about her demise and, together with some
friends, made an acrostic about what the name Reyna
means to them.
Mrs.
Gloria McDonald was Reyna's first teacher. She often
talked about Reyna and liked to praise her. She often
said Reyna would grow into a beautiful young lady.
Hester Van der
Werff, Reyna’s school friend, in her
letter to Reyna’s parents, wrote, ‘I have
found that in my sorrow over the death of Reyna, no
words of comfort are more precious to me than those
of the Bible, and I hope that you will find the same.
“God is our refuge
and strength,
a very present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear, though
the earth should change,
And though the mountains slip
into the heart of the sea.” … Psalm 46:1,2
… God give you strength
and peace to face the years ahead.’
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